Three Signs That the First Date Should be the Last

Red flags not to be ignored

Since childhood, we hear about love at first sight, but how many such stories with a happy ending do you actually know (ex-boyfriend’s sister’s friend’s girlfriend does not count)? Romanticized ideas about a fateful meeting often obscure the eyes of lovers. We tell you what to look for so as not to be disappointed later.

TALK ABOUT SEX

The first date is, as a rule, a meeting with an unfamiliar person, the main purpose of which is to get to know each other. And although sex is an integral part of a relationship, starting a conversation about it, barely knowing the middle name of the person sitting opposite, is at least strange.

DISCUSSION OF THE FORMER/PAST

Another red flag is talking about past relationships. The first date is the time when you can talk about yourself, your plans and goals. If your counterpart begins to recall past relationships, he or she is probably not completely gone from them.

TALK ABOUT A SHARED FUTURE

Another wake-up call is immediate talk about a joint future. Surely there are people who find it romantic. However, in reality, this is a classic manifestation of manipulation. How can a person who has known you for only a few hours plan the next decade of living together?